Haha yep!

Genius I love it

That’s a lot of financial stress over your life and the sad truth is that life costs money. You need money to cope. Big age gaps cause a lot of difficulties cos you’re in really different places, it’s rough

Parentification of kids can be really destructive there’s loads of research into it. It’s especially destructive when it’s against someone’s consent, eg it can cause hostility between family members. How’s it effected you long term?

Even if I brought my cats?

Ditto. I’d 100% rather be alone than with someone that wasn’t right for me and I’ve NEVER wanted to be a mum.

Yep I’m tempted to contact her

All hail her majesty!